We connect to people which are so, so different than us ... as personality and experience of life ... and there are moments when we realise it was really stupid to accept such a connection  ...by romanian author Adrian Dumitru

We connect to people which are so, so different than us ... as personality and experience of life ... and there are moments when we realise it was really stupid to accept such a connection  ...by romanian author Adrian Dumitru

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Studying love stories ... and the psychology beyond beautiful relationships... i've saw a nice joke on social media.

It says that … Jim and Paula met on the beach on ... Maldives.

They started to talk.

... and talk ... and talk ... and talk.

They liked each other.

Obviously being in love ... he propose her to marry him.

And ... like in any beautiful love story ... she said ... yes.

Right after than ... Jim says to her ... "Listen to me .... from now on ... i will call you ... Eve."

"But why?!" ... she replies.

"Because ... you're the first woman from my life".

She smiles ... continuing ironically ... "Ok then ... my dear.

I will call you Peugeot."

"But why?!" ... he asks intrigued.

 

"Because ... you're number ... 206"

 

I've smiled ... ironically also ... reading the joke.

But that is ... most certainly ... a real case scenario ... especially ... nowadays.

Men and women ... from all around the world ... because of the internet ... end up having lots, lots of short relationships.

And the question is ... how can be a relationship between a man and a woman ... if one of the partners already had tens or even ... hundreds of other partners?!

It is ... a good path to follow .... especially for the one who didn't really experienced so much in life?!

Maybe ... yes.

Maybe ... no.

But ... most certainly we meet in life ... not who we want ... but who we need to meet.

The partner ... that has a past with lots of relationships ... knows indeed a lot about how really is functioning the connection between a man and a woman.

Knows to connect.

Knows ... the psychology beyond relationships.

But ... forgot what means ... to have a special connection.

Totally forgot those feelings ... experienced at the beginning of life.

A relationship .... is just a relationship.

They know to connect.

But also .... know to practice the detachment and the art of disconnecting from souls.

And a person ... who didn't really experienced life …

 

relationships ... has the opportunity to learn ... from such a partner ... like from a guru.

But ... the differences between them ... is a great disadvantage.

Unfortunately ... for the relationship itself ... cause they don't feel with the same intensity ... all what is going on.

So ... they don't really synchronise.

Into the end .... the sensation of being on a pathless path ... is more and more dominant.

... for both of them.

But ... maybe they really needed to have such an experience.

Then ... accept the disconnection.

Accept all ... as a lesson of life.

 

And .... dream of a better future.

... but with someone else.

 

 

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